Beginners Guide To BDSM In DUBAI

Human sexuality is such a curious thing: over the millennia men, women and everything in between have devised innumerable ways to seek out pleasure. What sounds off putting and maybe even gross to one is the ideal fantasy for another. Is this driven by culture or our innate desire to ever expand the boundaries of pleasure? We’ll leave that question up to the philosophers. Suffice it to say, that in this milieu of never ending sexual exploration, in 2016 – and with the help of the internet – no matter what you desire, no matter what fetish, practice or perversion – as long as it’s legal and the parties are consenting – you can find oodles of people just like you who love nothing more than exactly what you do. This gives us at The List a warm fuzzy feeling inside and we want to help those who have, what society might consider, less than mainstream tastes every opportunity to find what they want. Which is why today we’ll be exploring the world of BDSM and Bondage and how you can find the perfect escort from these genres right here in the United Arab Emirates.

What Is BDSM?

Excellent question and though you’d think it has a simply answer, it’s actually quite complicated. Many in the sub-culture can’t agree as to what the letters in the acronym actually stand for. This chart from wikipedia comes closest to summing it up though.

There you have the D and S can either mean Domination/Discipline, and Submission/Sadism respectively.

Now that we have the dryest definition of the terminology, let’s look closer at each facet.

Bondage

This is pretty self explanatory: the practice of restraining a partner using ropes, handcuffs or duct tape for sexual or aesthetic gratification. Though commonly construed with BDSM, bondage, in and of itself doesn’t necessarily imply inclusion in the genre.

Sadism

Named for the eponymous Marquis De Sade. Who, aside from maybe Caligula, is the most famous sexual deviant from history. This French aristocrat was quite a character – for a fantastic read on this nobleman who died obese, penniless and hated in a lunatic asylum check out this story in the Times – but is best known for his erotic writing about using pain as a means of pleasure.

For centuries the idea that one could get intense sexual pleasure from pain or humiliation was thought to be a form of psychopathy. However, thanks to courageous work from sadists (and their masochist counterparts) around the globe, the practice has gained mainstream acceptance: the wild popularity of the 50 Shades of Grey novels and movies being the most relevant testament to this.

The Marquis himself has also seen reputational revolution in the last 10 years. You can see evidence of it everywhere, from Marquis festivals in France to some of the finest purveyors of BDSM Escorts in London namin their agencies after the great man: see DeSade London.

Sadist/Dom women are very popular in Dubai. It has something to do with the kind of man who comes here. They are highly ambitious, A type personalities who are always in charge in their professional lives. These titans of industry may look cool and collected when conduction multi-billion dollar deals, but always being in control takes its toll and for this particular type of man the best way to unwind is to let someone else take control. And because these aren’t the kind of people who do anything halfway, when they want to be controlled they want it 100%. Step up the D/M woman who can put this man in his place and make him beg for the kind of mercy he cannot afford to show in the boardroom.

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That’s our brief introduction into this world but trust us, it goes much, much deeper. If you already have a taste for BDSM please visit our Dubai gallery to peruse the ladies therein. Each states their likes and dislikes on their profile page so you can see just what to expect from them.

 
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